Something I've learned:
If you come at someone with anger, you're just going to get anger back.
Or you'll get excuses, rationalizing, wit, comebacks, arguments, and/or personal attacks.
Most of the time, you're not really angry. You're just disappointed, hurt, or frustrated.
So just say that.
You don't change the way anybody thinks or acts by getting angry at them.
You can do a lot better when you let them know that they're important to you and what they did hurt you.
See?
I'm learning.
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